Unpopular opinion: don’t schedule time to journal.

I journal, in one form or another, almost every single day. The most prominent in my life is my personal journal, diary, or whatever you want to call it — the one where I write about the experiences, thoughts, feelings, goals and ideas that I experience in my daily life. It’s probably my most significant and regular self-care activity, and I simply love writing in my journal.

I was not always a journaling type, though. I have always been interested in the idea, but have rarely found a form I’m able to stick with. I spent a lot of time researching “tips” for journaling, trying to figure out what I was doing wrong that prevented me from sticking with it. One of the most popular tips I read was, “set aside a time of day to write in your journal, and make it a habit to write at that same time every day.”

If your life is anything like mine, this is a sure-fire way to fail. I say don’t schedule a time to journal — journal whenever you feel like journaling.

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The quest for the perfect TN notebook insert (I found for $2 on AliExpress)

[Full disclosure: I included some “associate links” to the products I mention here because, why not? However, my intention with this piece is to share my sincere thoughts on products I’ve actually used and spent my own money on — not to try to push monetized links on people. If you buy a product I link to and I make a little side cash off the sale, cool, but that’s not what inspired this piece and it hasn’t influenced my writing.]

For those of you who have just tuned into the Rad Dad blog for the first time, I’m really into writing by hand. In fact, I’d say I try to spend as much of my day as possible gripping a pencil, which implies that I’m very frequently writing on something, ostensibly paper. However, I don’t talk a lot about paper on this blog; mostly because I don’t think I know enough about it to do full-blown paper reviews. That said, paper is important to me. In fact, when it comes to the journal/diary section of my Traveler’s Notebook, I’m downright anal about it.

My journal is the most important notebook I carry around with me, maybe even more important than my Midori 019 “Weekly Diary” Planner, which I would be a total mess without. But my journal? My whole life is in there! I also don’t subscribe to the notion of setting aside a specific time to journal; I bring it with me everywhere so I can purge whenever I need. So my number-one criteria for choosing a journaling notebook is enough durability to stand up to a buttload of writing and a lot of abuse from being hauled all over hell’s half acre. Fortunately, my traveler’s notebook cover keeps it pretty protected, and I’ve simply not run into a notebook insert that was garbage-quality.

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